Motherhood is more than childbirth-it’s about compassionate care, sacrificial love, and deep emotional connection. On this Mother’s Day, we reflect on one of the most compelling biblical examples of motherhood found in 1 Kings 3:16-26.
It’s the dramatic story of two mothers who appeared before King Solomon with one living child. Out of this encounter, we uncover timeless qualities that define a truly compassionate mother-lessons that remain relevant in today’s parenting culture.
This article explores this popular topic through the lens of Scripture and practical parenting, offering inspiration for modern mothers seeking to raise godly children with wisdom and care.
The Story at a Glance (1 Kings 3:16–26)
Two women, both prostitutes, came before King Solomon to resolve a heart-wrenching dispute. They lived in the same house and each gave birth to a child within days of each other. One woman’s baby died in the night, and she allegedly switched the dead baby with the living one. With no witnesses, King Solomon proposed a shocking solution-divide the living baby in two. The real mother immediately pleaded to give the child to the other woman rather than see him killed. Through her act of selflessness and compassion, Solomon identified her as the true mother.
This story doesn’t just reveal Solomon’s wisdom; it unveils the heart of a compassionate mother.
1. A Compassionate Mother Is Actively Involved in Her Child’s Life
The first woman knew the truth because she was present, involved, and deeply connected with her child. She was aware of the birth timeline, feeding patterns, and the uniqueness of her baby. Just as Proverbs 27:23 says, “Be diligent to know the state of your flocks, and attend to your herds,” every caring mother must be in tune with the physical, emotional, and spiritual state of her children. Whether biological or adoptive, true mothers pay attention.
2. A Compassionate Mother Is Willing to Sacrifice for Her Child’s Good
When faced with the threat of her child’s death, the true mother was willing to give him away to preserve his life. That’s the essence of compassion-placing another’s well-being above personal interest. It reflects the heart of God Himself. In Isaiah 49:15, the Lord asks, “Can a woman forget her nursing child…?” God uses a mother’s compassion to describe His own love.
3. A Compassionate Mother Chooses Life Over Pride
The impostor wanted the baby killed so neither of them would have him, but the real mother preferred to lose custody than lose her child’s life. This teaches that compassionate mothers prioritize their children’s future over personal pride or convenience. In an age where children are sometimes seen as burdens, this story calls for selfless parenting and protection of life.
Conclusion
The story of the two mothers before King Solomon reminds us of the power of maternal compassion. True motherhood is not defined by titles or biological ties, but by the willingness to protect, nurture, and love-often at great cost. As we celebrate Mother’s Day, let every mother aspire to be one who knows her children, sacrifices for their good, and prioritizes their life and destiny above all else.
Let us also honor the countless women who embody these traits every day-mothers, aunties, guardians, and spiritual mothers—who serve as God’s hands of love in a broken world.
Call to Action
Are you raising your children with compassion? Let the Word of God guide you. Share this article with a mother you admire and encourage someone today.
Eric Otchere serves as the Chief Servant of Living Our Bible, a daily Christian blog dedicated to sharing the full counsel of God. The blog’s mission is to help believers grow in grace and reach unbelievers with the gospel of Christ.